SELF-RELIANCE IS THE HEART OF LIBERTY

It’s a trait embedded in what it means to be an American

BY JEFF MINICK

August 3, 2022

“A human being should be able to change a diaper, plan an invasion, butcher a hog, conn a ship, design a building, write a sonnet, balance accounts, build a wall, set a bone, comfort the dying, take orders, give orders, cooperate, act alone, solve equations, analyze a new problem, pitch manure, program a computer, cook a tasty meal, fight efficiently, die gallantly. Specialization is for insects.”

Whew! That’s quite a list Robert Heinlein laid out in his novel, “Time Enough for Love.” As we might have deduced, Heinlein, a science-fiction writer, strongly advocated for the virtues of individual liberty and self-reliance in his work

Few of us, I suspect, could match all of Heinlein’s criteria for being human. In my case, I fall short in several departments. I’ve never set a bone, programmed a computer, or conned a ship—unless you count my father’s power boat. Nor have I butchered a hog, although three of my adolescent grandchildren have performed that exercise and slaughtered chickens in the bargain.

Of course, Heinlein refers not so much to specific tasks but was instead encouraging a generalization of talents and skills as opposed to specialization. If we read back through his inventory, we see that he was, in fact, celebrating self-reliance, a trait embedded in what it means to be an American.

Though we may opt for the convenience of retail and handymen, we retain an admiration for those who know how to grow gardens, take on home repairs, and other such skills. (Biba Kayewich)

Origins

“Root, hog, or die.”

Nineteenth-century settlers sometimes turned their pigs into the fields and forest to forage for food, but they also commonly used that expression as a metaphor for self-reliance. For most of our history, in fact, men and women exhibited many of the talents found in Heinlein’s checklist. The ones who moved west built houses and barns, planted fields, hunted for food, and faced dangers from accidents, the weather, and wildlife. You either carved out a livelihood in the wilderness or returned east to the relative safety and comfort of towns and cities.

Preceding those hardy folks were the colonists who, removed from the familiar comforts they had left behind in countries such as England, France, and Germany, confronted even grimmer tribulations. To a greater degree than they had ever experienced, they were on their own, facing both dangers and a solitary independence they had never imagined. In 1607, for example, 104 men founded a colony in Virginia they called Jamestown. By the end of the first year, only 38 of them remained alive. Eventually, the survivors and those colonists who later joined them learned to cope with the demands of this strange, new land.

Although we may not be milking our own cows or building a log cabin from scratch, plenty of writers, life coaches, grandparents, and parents stress self-reliance as a vital tool for a successful life. Visit most bookstores, and you’llfind a large self-help section—volumes intended to promote self-improvement and, by extension, self-reliance. Google “importance of self-reliance,” and scores of sites appear praising self-sufficiency and its attributes.

Typical of these—and I intend that as a compliment—is clinical psychologist Stephen Van Schoyck’s “5 Reasons Self-Reliance Is The Key to Success in Life,” in which he called this virtue “the foundation of independence.” In perhaps his most famous essay, 19th-century American thinker and writer Ralph Waldo Emerson ended “Self-Reliance” by stating: “Nothing can bring you peace but yourself. Nothing can bring you peace but the triumph of your principles.”

Schoyck echoes Emerson’s thought in his article: “Self-reliant people judge the world around them based on a set of principles that are under continuous review for the truth.”

He then gives his readers the five beneficial byproducts of self-reliance: self-knowledge, standing on your own two feet, confidence in yourself, strong relationships with others, and leadership abilities. To trust and rely on your own talents, instincts, and insights, tempered by a “continuous review for the truth,” is the cornerstone for all these other building blocks of character.

“Learning to be independent is one of the keys to developing strong relationships and one key to a successful life,” Schoyck said.

Passing It Forward

Teaching self-reliance to kids means resisting from jumping in when they are learning a new skill, such as tying their shoes. (Biba Kayewich)

And here’s some more good news: We can teach self-sufficiency to our children.

These lessons should begin early. When you’re on the way out the door and the 5-year-old is still tying his shoes, resist the urge to help him. Teach the 10-year-old how to do a load of laundry. A teenager who’s learning to drive should know how to use a tire gauge and how to check the oil of a car and should, for practice, perform these tasks before a long family trip. If that same teen needs to miss a soccer practice, have them make the phone call to the coach. I’ve seen too many college-age students who still want Mom or Dad to call a doctor or a teacher instead of taking that responsibility on themselves.

One more note about teens: As Schoyck pointed out, young people at this age often become rebellious. We parents may not like the arguments or the rolled eyes, but in most cases, this kicking back is a healthy sign. They’re trying to come to grips with growing up and making decisions. They’re testing you and themselves, trying to become more self-reliant.

Pitfalls

Carried too far, self-reliance becomes a detriment rather than an asset. Whether it’s getting the lawn cut when the mower breaks down, taking financial help from a family member when we’re slammed with unexpected medical expenses, or asking some friends to help us load a moving van, we can’t depend solely on our own resources all the time. A community of family, friends, and neighbors can offer everything from consolation when our lives take some horrible turn to chainsaws and labor when a storm brings down a tree in our driveway.

John Donne’s “No man is an island entire of itself” are words for even the most self-reliant among us to remember.

This Crucial Moment in History

In the 1945 edition of “Essays of Ralph Waldo Emerson,” which I have at hand, a journalist and literary critic of that day, Burton Roscoe, wrote of “Self-Reliance” in the introduction to this volume: “We cannot, or we should not, depend too much on others. We cannot allow others to live our lives for us, or even to regulate our lives, without losing that identity we should maintain as unique and individual human beings.”

For the past two years, we’ve allowed others to “regulate our lives.” Various agencies—governments, corporations, and international organizations—have trampled on our liberties, rights, and customs, often under the guise of misinformation or deliberate deceit.

If ever there was a time we needed a revival of self-reliance, in all its manifestations, that time is now. Self-reliance is more than the “foundation of independence.” It’s the very heart of courage and grit.

Jeff Minick has four children and a growing platoon of grandchildren. For 20 years, he taught history, literature, and Latin to seminars of homeschooling students in Asheville, N.C. He is the author of two novels, “Amanda Bell” and “Dust on Their Wings,” and two works of non-fiction, “Learning as I Go” and “Movies Make the Man.” Today, he lives and writes in Front Royal, Va. See JeffMinick.com to follow his blog.